Good morning 0405

 It’s cloudy and looks like it’s going to rain any minute. This weekend is the best time for cherry blossom viewing around here, so it’s kind of a shame.

We still got to see some cherry blossoms though—one at a temple and another along a popular street. We couldn’t see them from the hill, unfortunately. Yuki couldn’t make it up because of the numbness he’s been having. He said it feels like he’s wearing iron clogs, but I’ve never worn anything like that, so I can’t really imagine it.

Anyway, we were still able to enjoy the cherry blossoms this year, so that was nice.

Lately, one of his hobbies has been watching TV. He’s finally gotten into TV shopping and even bought a foot massage gadget. We’ll pay cash when it arrives, which is probably the safest way. We don’t have to sign up for anything, and even though we have to give our address, we don’t need to use a credit card.

I just hope we don’t start buying more stuff from TV shopping. I’m always tempted by supplements and beauty products, though…

Good afternoon 0404

 It’s Saturday and it’s raining. After visiting the clinic in the morning, we had lunch at home, and now we’re spending a quiet, calm time. I put up a sign in front of the house saying “Open – My Home Library,” but probably no one will come.

Yesterday, Yuki was able to receive chemotherapy. Anyway, for the time being, he’s been able to extend his life. Of course, we haven’t been told any specific prognosis yet. Still, we see chemotherapy as a way to prolong life. That’s why we really hope he won’t suffer from severe side effects.

Well, I feel like I made it sound a bit dramatic.

Tomorrow, a carpenter is coming to install a few more handrails. Meanwhile, Yuki is planning to go to a jazz café and perform.

As for the house, in the end, everything is left to me. Well… it is what it is.

Good morning 0402

 It’s raining, but we’re going to drive to a particular place to see the cherry blossoms. Since it’s raining, we’ll just look at the cherry trees along the street from inside the car.

It looks like tomorrow will be perfect weather for cherry blossom viewing, but we have to spend the whole day at the hospital.

For now, we’ll go out today and probably eat out again. Lately, we have  been a bit too loose with my spending.

Additionally, yesterday I cooked three meals.

April has started 0401

 April has started, and the cherry blossoms are blooming here in Utsunomiya.

Although I haven’t updated my blog for a while, we are both doing fine.

As for Yuki’s situation, he has started his final course of chemotherapy. According to the schedule, he is supposed to receive it three times a month, with one week of rest. However, unfortunately, his white blood cell count has been too low, so he has had to skip two treatments in a row.

He has strong numbness, so he cannot walk long distances, but other than that, he doesn’t have any serious side effects. We are hoping the numbness will improve even a little. He has started getting foot reflexology once a week, but so far, it hasn’t shown much effect. At home, I regularly give him moxibustion treatments.

Since we don’t have any relatives or children here, we decided to use public long-term care services.

Yuki has already been approved. At the moment, he doesn’t need much support, except for bed rails. Using the long-term care insurance system, we are planning to install a few more handrails in our home.

With long-term care insurance, we can install or rent assistive equipment at a low cost.

In my case, it is not yet certain whether I will be approved. However, if I am, I am thinking of having a home nursing consultation once a month.

In any case, our nursing care manager visits us once a month, which is a good thing. It gives us a nice distraction.

At the end of March, we decided to take the plunge and went to Tokyo to visit Yuki’s mother’s grave. We no longer have any regrets, but it was very tiring for both of us. Unfortunately, it seems unlikely that we will travel to Tokyo again.

After that, our children came to visit us in Utsunomiya. In a different way, it was also tiring, but we were happy to see them. There is a saying in Japanese, “It is good when they come, and it is good when they leave.” It really feels true.

Good morning 0319

 It is cloudy, but a calm day.

In the evening, we are each going to the gym.

Since Yuki’s numbness has been getting worse, he went for a foot reflexology massage. I suggested acupuncture, but he was too scared. The massage is apparently in the Taiwanese style. The practitioner is a man one year younger than him, and he is also the owner.

Yuki doesn’t really like massage or stretching, but he has started going, and that makes me happy. What makes me even happier is that it gives him a chance to talk with someone.

The session takes a little over an hour, and they chat while he is receiving the treatment.

These days, Yuki only talks with his doctors, his nursing care manager, and me. He has stopped playing tennis and being in his band. But in a quiet place, his hoarse voice is not a problem. So I’m glad he now has a place where he can talk to someone.

The only concern is that the massage seems quite painful, so I’m not sure if he will continue. For now, he plans to go once a week. It’s not covered by insurance, so it is rather expensive.

Good morning 0317

Today we have no plans in the morning.
So Yuki decided to organize his cap and hat collection. He is planning to let some of them go. One reason is that he has fewer opportunities to wear caps these days.

It’s a good thing to sort through them and reduce the number he has. However, after doing this, we will probably end up going to second-hand shops to buy some “new” ones. (They won’t actually be new, but they will be new to him.)

That’s all right. Browsing second-hand shops is fun for me. 

Additionally  since his voice has become hoarse and weak, we installed a wireless intercom in the house. Now it’s much easier for us to call each other between the first and second floors.

 

Good morning 0316

 Yesterday it was a peaceful day. We visited the city art museum and then had coffee at Karaku Cafe.

The museum is currently holding an exhibition by a local but very famous artist. He is eighty years old and even produced new works for the exhibition.
And surprisingly, he is someone we know—though I’m not sure if it’s quite right to say we “know” him.

But whenever we meet him, he always kindly speaks to us.