Saturday, September 30, 2023

Good morning 0930

 

My garage sale at a cafe was finished. Most of the items were sold. As we (including the cafe owner) expected, tableware is left. I am going to take them to a used shop.

Today Yuki is released temporarily. In 10 days he is going back to thehospital to start his cancer treatment. 

Next week I am supposed to go to Tokyo to visit our mothers, but I canceled it. It is the same day when Yuki and I are going to talk to his doctor about his radiation treatment.  

Anyway today’s lunch we are going to eat outside somewhere. (Additionally yesterday I had lunch at Karaku cafe)

Friday, September 29, 2023

Good morning 0929

 

Today it is the last day of my garage sell at cafe Karaku. In the afternoon I go there and take unsold goods back to my home, then of course I will,discard or take them to a used shop.

Yesterday an interesting thing happened at hospital. Yuki’s room is in the eight floor. I take his laundry and books to a lounge on the eighth floor (there a lounge on each floor) and talk with a nurse handing over them. There coincidentally I met my friend who is also my hairdresser. Of course both of them were very surprised. In her case her friend is there. Her friend has no family in Tochigi, so she supports her. She understood my situation. 

Then we went to Starbucks in the hospital and talk for a while. Yuki came down to buy his coffee, so three of us talked for a little. He also knows her. 

Well,  basically visitors are not allowed to see patients in the wards. But patients are allowed to buy something at Starbucks or a convenience store in the hospital. So my friend and I “coincidentally “ saw Yuki. 


Thursday, September 28, 2023

Good morning 0928

 

Today I have to go to hospital to check my cholesterol. I have already my medical report which I got from my annual  checkup last month. ( from the checkup Yuki’s tumor was found.)

The value is still high, but compadres three months ago not so change, just still high, so I won't take medicine. 

Anyway in one hour I will go out.

The hospital is different from Yuki’s one. My hospital is not so bigger than him but it is not a clinic. So it is crowded.




Wednesday, September 27, 2023

Good morning 0927

 

Yesterday I weeded. The amount was three big plastic bags of 45l. I did too much. So I went to bed very earlier than usual.

According to Yuki’s morning report today he has CT  exam. Then his main treatment plan is scheduled. 

At hospital morning starts very early. At 7 am, a nurse  comes, checks his temperature and condition, and tells today’s schedule to him. 

Yuki says “ I have visitors (nurses and his doctor) everyday more than usual.” (Well at home, he has seldom visitors because he is always out)



Tuesday, September 26, 2023

Good morning 0926

 

It is getting cooler. I am wearing a long sleeved shirt.

It is a usual thing, but this season hot weather continued. So I feel “finally I need long sleeved clothes”, though my friends of the gym still wear short sleeved clothes.

Morning coolness or lonely morning makes me depressed. I should go to the gym in the morning. 

My  mission in the afternoon is buying some book Yuki requested this morning (just a few minutes ago) at a used shop, taking them to the hospital and bring back back his laundry. His cancer treatment has not started yet. 


Monday, September 25, 2023

Good morning 0925 lunch diary shortversion 0923

 Good morning. A new week has started. Yuki is still in hospital. His pneumonia was cured. So, his next treatment is going to start. It must be tough.  



I wonder if I should go to the gym in the morning.

Friday, September 22, 2023

Good morning 0922

 

The procedure of Yuki’s pension finished. It was our big concern. We are relieved. 

Today, Yuki’s birthday. It is too bad that he is not here. I might buy new iPad for him to use kindle app, though he is not so interested. He prefer paper books and magazines. 

Additionally he took his old iPod with lots of music and rakugo(traditional Japanese comic story telling)
When he is not so good, listening to something makes him calm, and easy to sleep.







Thursday, September 21, 2023

Good morning 0921

 

Today I am going to a pension office as a substitute of Yuki. 

Finally Yukika pension will start. Concisely while he is 64, he receives part of his pension. When he becomes 65 he receives full pension. 

On our schedule we were going to the office together, then celebrate for finishing the process of pension documents having dinner outside. 
 Yesterday I got a letter of attorney from him at the hospital.

He has no fever, no coughing. Probably from next week his treatment will start. To tell the truth his pneumonia makes him weaken, though I think(hope) he keeps enough physical strength.

Wednesday, September 20, 2023

Good morning 0920

 

Yuki was officially diagnosed with lung cancer. He is still in hospital. After his pneumonia  completely gets over, its treatment starts with anticancer drug without being released.

Fortunately or unfortunately I am busy in processing documents. Now patients in the hospital prohibit to go shopping in the hospital. So I take some magazines an d  spare sets of clothes (pajamas and underwear). I can’t see home directly, but anyway I constantly go to the hospital.


Tuesday, September 19, 2023

Good morning 0919

 

Tuesday has come. In the evening finally family meeting with a doctor is held. Anyway I have no fever. If I have a slight fever in the day, it is caused by my anxiety.

These days I take my kimonos apart. I hesitated to do the first one. But once I started, I can take others apart smoothly. 

A friend of my gym changes them into casual clothes. 

Taking apart it, washing, and ironing, there are some steps. And I hand the kimono cloth to my friend. Of course sewing has many troublesome steps.

Monday, September 18, 2023

Good morning 0918

 

This week has started, though it is a holiday today. 

Yuki is still in hospital. Tomorrow evening we are going to talk with his doctor. What happens is going to happen.

I hope the meeting will be hold on schedule.

It was going to be hold last Tuesday. But Yuki was suddenly hospitalized with pneumonia. So it was postponed. 

In the second half of the week at a floor in the hospital some patients were caught by corona virus. Luckily or unluckily Yuki is in a private room. So he is all right.

When he was told to be hospitalized , we hoped to be in a shared room (thinking of his condition and fee). But it was a sudden hospitalization so shared rooms were full. When a shared room was vacant, he was going to move there. But some patients were caught by corona virus, he enjoys his private room. But it got difficult to go to the first floor to buy something at a convenience store or take a coffee of Starbucks. (In the hospital there is a Starbucks).


Anyway today I stay home by myself. 

Sunday, September 17, 2023

lunch diary 0917 Short version

 I am spending this three-day weekend lazily, and absent-mind.

However in the morning I made juice of  which is growing in my garden.







Friday, September 15, 2023

Good morning 0915

 

Yuki is still in hospital. Than we expected he seems to be in hospital longer. The result of blood check is getting better. 

On the other hand my mother is getting better than we expected. She “drinks” thickens food if she likes. And she she clearly denied  food she doesn’t like. According to my daughter she. Is tough picky. Well it doesn’t start recently. It is her character. So she is all right, though we don’t know when aspiration pneumonia happens. 

In the morning I will go to the gym.

On Japanese calendar, we have three-day weekend. I have no plan.

I was going to see a friend for the first time in 30 years. She lives in Osaka, now she is in Tokyo for a while. So she was going to visit Utsunomiya here. But because of sudden Yuki’s hospitalization I canceled. I might talk with her on video phone. 

Wednesday, September 13, 2023

Good morning 0913

 

Yuki is fine, but has still fever. 

Than he expected it is cool in the hospital. I took two sets of long sleeved pajamas, but they are not enough. I have to go buying new ones and take them. (Usually he doesn’t wear long sleeved pajamas expect think ones for winter, so he doesn’t suitable pajamas at home. )

According to him, a  chest pocket is necessary, and if is can find sporty type is better.

I think a set of long sleeved normals pajama with a chest pocket is enough. 

Anyway the period he has to be in the hospital seems to longer than we expected. 

Tuesday, September 12, 2023

Good morning 0912

 

Yesterday it was a long day. We got to the hospital about 10:30 AM. And I got home past 7PM.

Yuki caught pneumonia and was hospitalized yesterday. He looked not so bad. He didn’t have high fever. But his blood test was not so good, and his lung is weak. So doctors were thinking, the they suggested him to be hospitalized.


Unluckily he had to cancel play golf onWednesday.

He was going to attend the the golf with taking medicine. 

Anyway for about five or seven days he has to spend with no-alcohol.

Here in Utsunomiya Ipswich’s big hospitals are not admitted anyone including family to visit patients who are hospitalized. So I just take his underwear or magazines constantly. —— not constantly, probably. Anyway today I have to take some. He can buy underwear at convenience store in the hospital, but it is very very expensive. 




Monday, September 11, 2023

Good morning 0911

 

This week has started with full of anxiety.

Yuki was able to join the concert yesterday. After that he told his members his health problem. It was a sad thing, but he seemed to be relieved because feeling less responsibility. 

Anyway today we go to the hospital. Our first schedule was going to the hospital tomorrow. 

Before going to his hospital I  go to a clinic to be prescribed medicine for headache for me. 

In the morning it seems to be tough.


Sunday, September 10, 2023

Lunch diary 0909 short version

 


It is Sunday. Yuki  is going to join a concert. 

However—-

To tell the truth he has still a fever and it is controlled by fever reducer.  He doesn’t catch coronavirus thought he did confirm by an exam kit at home. We call to the hospital and asked advice every two days. It might be a  side effect of PET-CT, but it seems too long. We are going to the hospital next Monday. At a clinic near of my house, they prescribe fever reducer. 

The hospital says that if he gets into bad condition including bad coughing, come there as an emergency patient. 


Actually I don’t want him to join the concert today. But he seems that it might be the last official concert for him. I know it. In autumn some concerts are scheduled. But he can’t make sure if he is able to join them. 






Friday, September 08, 2023

Good morning 0908

 

It is raining. Yuki has no choice but staying home because of no tennis. 

Yesterday I called the hospital about his fever. It seems to be a side effect. So they said to take fever reducer. 

Thinking calmly it is usual thing. But such a thing makes me uneasy. And from of now such worry things are more. Can we get over?

About my garage sale at cafe owner said some of my collection sold. I am really happy to hear that. I could give good retirement stage for my collection. 

Thursday, September 07, 2023

Good morning 0907


 Yesterday Yuki had a positron emission tomography - computed tomography examination. Than he expected it got a damage to him. He has a slight fever. he is all right. Today  he cancelled playing tennis. And we were going to go on an overnight trip to Gunma prefecture which is next prefecture to see our daughter's group exhibition  on Friday. We canceled. These days  he had to start taking detailed examinations suddenly. It seems to make him tired than he expected. This Sunday he joins a big jazz concert. It is very important for him, so we don’t go out far for his health.
Of course he does house errands as usual.He took garbage out as usual this morning. 

Wednesday, September 06, 2023

Good morning 0906

 

This is my breakfast. Today Yuki has another detailed examination, so he has to skip breakfast. In 30 minutes I drive him to the hospital. 

After his examination, it is our lunch time. I wonder which restraint to go.


Tuesday, September 05, 2023

Good morning 0905

 

Yesterday’s rain was terrible. Some roads near my house were flooded. It was reported on TV. 
We canceled our plan of yesterday’s afternoon and stayed home. 

Today it seems to get hot again. 
I am going to the gym in the morning. 
Yuki is going to get a hair cut. 

When our new washing machine was settled, the electrician advised me to have a check of  the faucet. I should call a plumber near my house. some unexpected errands often happen these days.

Monday, September 04, 2023

Good morning 0904

 

Monday has started.

It is rainy. So it is cool. 

Today we are going to a shopping mall. There is a senior life advice center to revise our budget plan and life. Consultation is free of charge. Then we are going to take LRT.  We will just go to the last stop and come back by LRT.

The last  stop is the company Yuki user to work. 

Sunday, September 03, 2023

lunch diary short 0901 short version

 


It is Sunday. Yuki is playing tennis in this scorching daytime. 

A new washing machine has come.

There might have a trouble of the water tap. I need to call a plumber next week.

Like us, our old has needs more care.




Friday, September 01, 2023

Good morning 0901

 

September has come. Our new stage of retirement life has started. 

Today Yuki is admitted to hospital overnight for having lung biopsy. 

We are relieved because for these two weeks we aren’t caught by cold and corona virus. Yesterday in the evening we had a call from the hospital, they confirmed us if someone has a fever or been caught by corona virus.

In the afternoon I will go to Karaku with my collection. They are displayed for one month, I hope someone buy some of them. 

On Sunday in the morning a new washing machine comes while Yuki goes playing tennis.