Good morning 0518

 

by Yuki

by Mieko

This week has started. Yuki is having some side effects, but he is doing all right. He is planning to go to a jazz café to play bass, piano, or guitar. According to him, he can’t play the instruments as well as before, but he can still enjoy playing in sessions with others. That’s a good thing.

I have a rehab appointment at the orthopedic clinic.

Good morning 0514

 Yesterday I joined an Online meeting.

The topics are..."Health and sickness”

◆How healthy do you feel right now?

What troubles me most is my frozen shoulder. I can raise my arm, but I can’t move it behind my back. In Japanese, there’s a common expression “forty-shoulder,” but even at my age, the doctor didn’t really use the term “sixty-shoulder.

◆Have you ever broken a bone? What happened?

I have never completely broken a bone, but I sometimes get avulsion fractures.剥離骨折 It has nothing to do with aging; I’ve had this since I was young. At first, I sometimes thought it was just a sprain, but it turned out to be an avulsion fracture. When I go to the hospital, I’m often told it’s an avulsion fracture. I’ve learned how to tape it properly, so it usually heals on its own. I just have to wait for it to heal naturally.

◆Do you take vitamins or mineral supplements?

I used to take various supplements occasionally, including ones for knee pain prevention. However, last year I was found to have low bone density, so I now take a prescription from my internist. It’s an activated form of vitamin D3.”

◆What do you think about Chinese medicine?

I like traditional Chinese medicine, or kampo in Japanese, which is a slightly different system from Chinese herbal medicine. I take it under a doctor’s prescription. For example, for hay fever, Western medicine alone wasn’t quite effective enough, so my doctor added kampo to adjust the treatment. I also take kampo for chronic coldness in my body. Nowadays, many clinics include kampo under health insurance, which is very helpful.”

◆What things do you do that might damage your health?

The things that might affect my health are mental stress, fatigue, and changes in temperature.

◆How often do you eat junk food? What kinds of junk food do you eat?

I like rice burgers at Mos Burger, and I enjoy ginger cookies from Gyomu Super. I often make fried udon at home rather than fried yakisoba. I’m not sure if that counts as junk food. So I guess I eat some comfort foods, but not much typical junk food.

Good morning 0513

 It’s a nice day again today. After the pollen season, I often air out my futon. YUKI does it too, no matter the season.

Airing futons is part of Japanese culture, but these days people living in newer condominiums are usually not allowed to hang them outside.

Today, I’m going to practice putting on a kimono so I can wear one when I meet my friend this Saturday. If I can manage it well enough, I might go to a department store in it today with YUKI. If not, I’ll just go in the same outfit as yesterday.

Good morning 0512

 Today is my performance day with a friend at KARAKU Cafe. It’s a beautiful day. I’m going to wear white pants today, which is unusual for me. When I wear white pants, I feel a little more refined, and because I don’t want to get them dirty, I pay more attention to my movements.  But this year, I’d like to wear them more often—even when we go to an Italian restaurant.

Good morning 0511

 

by Yuki

by Mieko

A normal week has started. Last week, YUKI couldn’t have chemotherapy, but today his condition isn’t so bad. It’s difficult to balance the treatment and its side effects.

Good morning 0510

 In about 30 minutes, we will go out. Where? To the laundromat.

This morning, as soon as we got up, we took our futons and sheets there, and now the machines are running. We need to go and take them out soon. They probably won’t be completely dry yet, so we’ll hang them out to air. Fortunately, the pollen season is over, so I can finally air out my futon.

At the same time, our washing machine at home—without a dryer—is also running. Today is definitely a laundry day.

On the other hand, I organized our clothes. Decluttering Yuki’s clothes is easy, because I just threw away his M-size items—mainly business shirts and golf shirts—with his permission, of course. 

In my case, it’s not so easy. So I checked what I wore this week. These days, the temperature has been different every day—one day I wore a sweater, another day a cotton long-sleeve T-shirt. I had already sorted my clothes into winter and summer, but this time I added a mid-season category. I also reviewed outfit combinations and tried to get a clear idea of what I actually have and what I really wear.

Now, it’s time to go out.

Good morning 0508

Japanese hair salons going bankrupt in record numbers 

Yesterday I talked about the article “Japanese hair salons going bankrupt in record numbers” with a friend in English. She asked me about the issue, but I didn’t know much about it. Apparently, it is mainly happening in big cities like Tokyo.

However, I think a similar situation is occurring not only in big cities but especially in rural areas as well, though not going bankrupt. In rural areas, the population is decreasing, so the number of customers is also declining. Of course, large chains and big salons have not expanded much into such places. Beauticians or barbers own their shops and run them by themselves. In many cases, that is enough because there were not originally so many customers there.

Since young people often do not inherit their family farms, they tend to leave rural areas. As a result, most customers are elderly people, and many salon owners are elderly as well. Therefore, both customers and salons may gradually disappear over time.

In mid-sized cities like Utsunomiya, however, I feel that the number of salons is actually increasing. Most of them are not large salons. More than half seem to be individually run, and many are operated by husbands and wives together. Sometimes only one of them is a barber or beautician, while the other works to support their living expenses. In addition, these salons are often opened in part of their own house, so they do not have to pay shop rent.

Going back to the earlier point, expensive rent is probably one of the reasons why it is difficult for beauty salons and barbershops to survive in big cities.

In addition, more hairstylists and barbers are now visiting nursing homes or elderly people’s homes to cut hair instead of working only in salons. They are called visiting hairstylists or mobile hairstylists, and part of the cost can be covered by Japan’s long-term care insurance system.

Although the number of salons themselves may be decreasing, hairstylists and barbers will probably continue to have stable jobs because people can rely on their skills, even as AI becomes more widespread.

Good morning 0507

 “All right” is always how I start this blog. And actually, we are all right today, too.

But to tell the truth, lately either of us has often been in a bad mood. This morning, it was Yuki — probably because of the heaviness and fatigue he feels in the mornings.

Still, the long holiday is over now, so our usual routine is starting again: hospital visits, shopping and sometimes lunch out, and the gym. We have things to do, so maybe from today we won’t even have time to stay in a bad mood.

So, although it may sound a little strange, we are all right.

My friend stopped by with some flowers.

Good morning 0506

 It is the last day of this five-day weekend.

Yesterday, our younger daughter M and our granddaughter A came to visit. Unfortunately, YUKI wasn’t as energetic as usual, so the three of us ladies went to a supermarket and bought some delicatessen food.

Since there were five of us, we needed more food than YUKI and I usually buy.

Our elder daughter joined us via video call. Starting next weekend, her solo exhibition will be held in Tokyo for one month. YUKI and I won’t be able to go, but M, A, and another friend are planning to visit on the first day.

Good morning 0504

 A new week has started. We’re in the middle of a five-day weekend, and both of us are spending it rather lazily.

Fortunately, Yuki was able to receive his chemotherapy last Friday, even though it had been scheduled to be skipped.
Based on his previous treatments, he might develop a fever around this time, but so far he hasn’t.

The current chemotherapy seems to be working and holding the progression back, and the doctors are pleased. However, we have mixed feelings and can’t simply feel happy about it. It feels as if this might be the last treatment that can prolong his life, which is what the doctors seem to be implying.

Still, yesterday he participated in a jazz session at a jazz café. He’s trying to enjoy every moment. That said, depending on how he feels in the morning, we never know if he’ll be able to go out—so we’re just taking it easy.

Meanwhile, I find myself becoming increasingly anxious about living alone someday. Our children live far away, so I can’t really rely on them to come quickly in an emergency. It feels too early—both in terms of age and finances—to move into a care home.
My mother-in-law decided on her own to move into one at the age of 80.

When I start thinking about these things, my anxiety swells up and sometimes leaves me unable to get out of bed. That was me yesterday.

Still, somehow, life goes on.