With two high school students

Do you think it's important to pay compliments to the people surrounding you like your friends, family members? A boy said. Yes, it is very important. Paying compliments gives good influence both of speakers and receivers. When we speak highly of others, they must fell happy and show a big smile. seeing smile makes everyone happy. So paying compliments to the people surrounding us is necessary to get along in peace. A girl said. No, I don't think so, though getting compliments makes me happy. We don't need to focus on paying compliments to others. Nowadays in everywhere and from every adults we are asked to pay compliments to others. It is the natural when we want to say something good, we will do. Before talking this thing, more adults should show the attitude to pay compliments to others naturally. Well, well, And I said. My opinion is no. I don't think it is important to pay compliments to the people surrounding us. However it is very important to find or focus on their positive and bright sides instead of minor or negative sides. When we focus on their positive sides more than on negative sides, we naturally express our positive feeling with positive phrases, though the phrases might not compliments. We tend to compare each other, and when we find negative sides or lower-level acts than us, we tend to be pleased with ourselves. It is only a bad effect for both sides. Of course sometimes it is necessary to comfort each other. However while we are young, we try to always focus on positive sides. What do you think of it?