I'm a Japanese housewife living in Japan. I'm in my 60's. I want to know daily lives in the world, so at first I'll tell my daily. What is your daily life?
It seems to have been a while to update the frog cards.
As I told you, the original cards are written in Japanese. We have lots of particular Japanese expression. It is really difficult for me to explain them in English.
This year I could visit the house "kairo -no-niwa" again. I was looking forward to visiting there.
The couple of owners welcomed "us". "Us" means --- this time I visited there early morning with Yuki. On the day Yuki had to go to Tokyo on business, but he had time to drop by. So we visited, and the husband of owners picked roses. Yuki was able to do it, but he was wearing business suits.
I'm not familiar with roses, but I know there are many kinds of roses.
All rose petals can be eaten, but soft petals are suitable for jam.
Perhaps the main rosses I picked were "royal bonica"???
And this year the owners recommended us another kind of rose which was a big rose.
I drove Yuki to the station, and came back home.
A friend also came and made rose-wine, and rose jam.
We also enjoyed reading an English picture book "sleeping beauty"
And enjoyed a herb world about roses.
And --- at night, we enjoyed "rose bath".
I would like to grow "edible roses" --however ---
OK, "we" add it to our to-do list of our retirement life.
Once there used to be many farmers who have silk worms in Japan. And you might know Japan used to be a very famous country to export high quality silk.
Now there are not so many such farmers. And as a traditional Japanese culture, Empress Michiko keeps some silkworms in Imperial Palace.
As long as I can remember, I haven't seen real silkworms.
Silkworms eat mulberry leaves. Mulberry leaves are "Kuwa-no-ha" in Japanese, and some people drink Kuwa-no-ha tea like green tea. I've also drunk it.
On the other hand "mulberry-tea " is very popular in herb word.
At first when I learnt herb-tea, I didn't know that mulberry tea is Kuwa-no-ha tea.
As I learnt herb-tea, so this year I plant a small mulberry seedlings. And they are having fruits.
Seeing tiny mulberry fruits, carry me, a nostalgia feel
Mulberry, though it's one of classic herb-tea, regular Kuwa-no-ha-cha
This is our group collection of hahiku poems. Unfortunately my hiaku are not involved, though I'm counted as a member of this haiku group.
Probably 7 years ago, coincidently I had a chance to visit their exhibition of haiku & photo.
The original world of haiku has lots of "strict" or "difficult" rules, but, the group try to make haiku in a free style. It means that it is all right not to be strict to the 5-7-5 style and to include a season word.
I liked the style, and became a member.
The other reason was that, at that time my mother used to enjoy haiku. So I thought when she came here, I would take her to the meeting. Unfortunately I haven't done it yet.
Though I'm still a member of this group, I can't join them for several years. Their meeting is held on Sunday once a month, and nowadays I'm busy on Sundays, as a grandmother, as a daughter.
For these 7 years the situations of my situation and my mother, my mother in-law, and my daughters have changed a lot.
So unfortunately my poems are not included.
However I'm keeping the contact with them.
Because the leader and the sub leader got married (though they are in the same generation of mine) and started a restaurant.
So I sometimes drop by to have lunch.
The other day I dropped by and got this collection of their poems.
This Saturday, a jazz concert was held at a public art museum at our prefecture.
Of course the main event was not the concert, it was was a special exhibition of two painters. The painters were two of first artists who went abroad after Edo era and got popularity in the U.S.A.
So to make the exhibition more attractive, a jazz concert was organized by the art museum.
The art museum is managed by our prefecture, which means they have enough budget to organize such a concert.
So we can listen to it by just paying the entrance fee, and the musicians are not local ones. They are very famous in Japan. Especially the bassist is very popular.
The place is not a concert hall, so we so everybody can enjoy their performance at the same level.
This time we could sit behind them.
And after the concert, naturally, the audience had a chance to talk to them. So, of course,Yuki went to talk to them. He is a big fan of Jazz.
When we went to concerts, usually the performers are on the stage, so the world of audience and the world of performers are separated.
However when we are on the same level, we feel the performers more friendly, and more closely.
Let me tell my feeling.
These days some people I know held their concerts. Of course those concerts are great and I'm happy to their success. I'm proud of knowing them. At the same time, I feel that they have gone to a different world, and I tend to feel sorry for myself. (not being jealous to them) I feel disappointed to remain in the same stage in life. Because probably, they don't look at me now, they look at far higher or more different stage in life.
On the other hand, when I talk to a person who is usually in a different or higher stage in life, I become optimistic and want my life to move on to the next stage, go into a different world. Because the eyes are really kind, and don't show any self-important attitude to us.
Well, what I can do or what I have to do from now is to do what I can do now.
This Sunday it was Mother's Day, wasn't it?
Both of us didn't do anything for our mothers, though we call them constantly on weekdays.
Both of our daughters face gave me a call from early morning in turn. Our eleder,daughter seems to spend foodgood days luckily.
And my son in-law sent this pot of flowers. He seemed to chose it by himself at a nearby floweshop and send it to me. So our younger daughter (his wife) asked me what flower he sent. I sent a photo. It is themselves. That's them.
Of course, last week , it was Mother's Day craft lesson.
Five students made cards and original coupons. I hope they , especially junior high school boys , would have presented them. I'll check whether they did or not, this week.
Today it is the volunteering day at the library.
This morning we turned on the heater as usual, and now -- the all windows are open. It is very hot.
Every around me says "it is difficult to adjust to the sudden change of the weather these days."
Today for me it is a kind of relaxing day.
After quick cleaning (which means I skipped cleaning the floor with the wet rag), I went out to take one and a half hour acupuncture treatment to ease my stuffed shoulder. (It isn't covered by our health insurance). And went to the gym to do exercise. Then, I dropped by a bank, and a super market.
Now I'm home (so I'm writing this diary).
I've already eaten my lunch at home.
After this, I update some blogs, practice the piano, and go out again to take one and a half hour face treatment at a esthetic clinic.
This is my schedule of today.
Not so bad, to spend money for myself (against aging.) until, we are working.
Today, finally the sun comes up, but it is still cold (someone says it is cool) even in the middle of May. Of course I turn on the heater .
Yesterday I revised the freezer, and tried tiding away.
I thawed a bag of mashed pumpkin, and put rice powder, toufu together.
I made some pumpkin dumplings.
As soon as I finished boiling, add some bean powder and red bean paste.
Yesterday it was cold, so hot dumplings were tasty.
And this morning, as I wrote it at first, it was a cold morning, so I made a "sweet" soup with the pumpkin dumplings.
Thankfully the regular audience came. And new two groups came.
As you know I'm not a professional pianist. So it is not job. I enjoy playing the piano, and I want to share the fun with audience. Luckily a professional performer joined me and read aloud some poems, however she also does as her hobby.
So the audience enjoy watching and listening to us with tea or coffee at Karaku.
( I hope our skill is not so bad)
Three of regular audience are senior ( it means they are older than me.)
And every time they go back, they say "I'm looking forward to coming there next month".
Each of them sometimes eat lunch there, but usually just order a cup of coffee.
Recently I noticed, how difficult for (some) senior it is to go out regularly.
And I also noticed sometimes "reasons" are necessary to go out for seniors.
I hope if there were such a place nearby on foot, I would go there as a audience.
Concerts are good, of course good quality concerts are good. However one-coin concert with good tea is also fun.
Well, well, actually today I'm going to play the piano at Karaku in the afternoon.
So I have to practice the piano --- but not yet.
Anyway as "we" woke up, we took recycled garbage out , and had breakfast.
Yuki went to work later than usual.
And I started to clean and organize the room more slowly than usual.
Next week I have three workshop which are organized by myself, so I have to prepare for them.
Usually I am the person to prepare everything beforehand.
I did it mostly before this big holiday, but the last part has not been finished.
Not so tired, just no power comes out.
It's OK, we sometimes have such time, don't we?
Yuki told me to come back earlier than usual. It means he will have dinner with me.
Well, probably today , it is also the day to be a break from kitchen. (Thanks Jan, I learnt this word.)
This big holiday includes "children's day".
What is the day for?
Anyway both our mothers were looking forward to seeing their great granddaughter.
So the first day of staying Tokyo was with Yuki's mother.
It was the first time for our grand daughter to have sushi at sushi restaurant.
And for Yuki's mother it had been a long time to eat sushi.
After 5 of us had lunch together, we separated. Yuki took her mother to a department store attended her for her shopping. Three of us went to a big park, I was sitting under the tree while my daughter and grand daughter were playing there.
The second day was for my mother.
Three of us had stake lunch. Then Yuki went browsing steeet to kill the time, and I attend my mother for her shopping.
Both mothers seemed rally enjoyed lunch and of course shopping .
My mother-in-law bought lots of sweets to present er friends in the senior center. My mother also ought lot she of sweets for her neighbors. To present something to someone seems to be fun and bring a good conversation.
As soon as we went back her house, she called her friend and said.
" hello, now I have just come back. I bought delicious snack , so please come in. Don!t mind. My daughter will go home soon, is they will not be here"
Of course we left her house quickly and went back here to Utsunomiya.
My husband Yuki and I live in a regional city. Our retirement life has state since 2020. Though Something good, exciting, worried or bad often happens, we try to focus the current situation and spend enjoyable days while living offf our savings little by little carefully.