Tuesday, April 30, 2019

What is "getting age free from anxiety"

In this article, a group is introduced. They pursue their ideal house for the elderly.
I know the definition of happiness is different each other.

Some people say that  it is sad for a elderly person to watch TV alone in the room every day.
The elderly person might be bored, but we don't know if she or he is sad or not.

On the other hand, probably it is right that such person tend to become dementia easily.
However who gets bothered by it? The people around the person.
So the people around such a single elderly people make him or her do somethings or go somewhere.

I try to take my mother to somewhere. However nowadays she doesn't seem to like it. She said "Going somewhere with you makes me busy".
I thought that making her busy is the way to avoid becoming dementia.

Anyway today I'll visit her.
 
ぽつんとしてるのが寂しいのかどうかはわからないのでは、と思い、さらに、
介護認定(要介護)を、もらえずまたはもらわず、かといって、出歩く元気もなく、家で1人、テレビを見て、ぽつんとしている、シニアの方は、結構いるのではないかな、とも思います。
寂しいけど、めんどくさい。そんな方も多いでしょう。結構、ぽつんとしているのを「ありのまま」と受け入れてる方も多いでしょう。と書くと、「だから痴呆症が増えるのだ」という話しになるのでしょうが。
今更ながら、痴呆症にならないよう、全員シニアスクールでもいきますか?というわけにもいかないし。
どうすればいいのでしょうね?

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