Thursday, February 02, 2023

Have you already read "All the lovers in the night"?


On yesterday's news paper, such an article was introduced.

all the lovers in the night  are announced one of  finalists and winners of  2023 National Book Critics Circle Awards.
Amazon page said
Bestselling author of Breasts and Eggs Mieko Kawakami invites readers back into her immediately recognizable fictional world with this new, extraordinary novel and demonstrates yet again why she is one of today’s most uncategorizable, insightful, and talented novelists.

Fuyuko Irie is a freelance copy editor in her mid-thirties. Working and living alone in a city where it is not easy to form new relationships, she has little regular contact with anyone other than her editor, Hijiri, a woman of the same age but with a very different disposition. When Fuyuko stops one day on a Tokyo street and notices her reflection in a storefront window, what she sees is a drab, awkward, and spiritless woman who has lacked the strength to change her life and decides to do something about it.

As the long overdue change occurs, however, painful episodes from Fuyuko’s past surface and her behavior slips further and further beyond the pale. All the Lovers in the Night is acute and insightful, entertaining and engaging; it will make readers laugh, and it will make them cry, but it will also remind them, as only the best books do, that sometimes the pain is worth it.

“In the skilled hands of Bett and Boyd, Kawakami’s prose is instantly recognizable—immediate, incisive, and unfailingly honest.”—Katie Kitamura, Entertainment Weekly(A Most Anticipated Book of 2022)

I didn't read it. 



Today I want to introduce another book. 
It is "Convenience Store Woman"
Amazon page said;
The English-language debut of one of Japan’s most talented contemporary writers, selling over 650,000 copies there, Convenience Store Woman is the heartwarming and surprising story of thirty-six-year-old Tokyo resident Keiko Furukura. Keiko has never fit in, neither in her family, nor in school, but when at the age of eighteen she begins working at the Hiiromachi branch of “Smile Mart,” she finds peace and purpose in her life. In the store, unlike anywhere else, she understands the rules of social interaction―many are laid out line by line in the store’s manual―and she does her best to copy the dress, mannerisms, and speech of her colleagues, playing the part of a “normal” person excellently, more or less. Managers come and go, but Keiko stays at the store for eighteen years. It’s almost hard to tell where the store ends and she begins. Keiko is very happy, but the people close to her, from her family to her coworkers, increasingly pressure her to find a husband, and to start a proper career, prompting her to take desperate action…
A brilliant depiction of an unusual psyche and a world hidden from view, Convenience Store Woman is an ironic and sharp-eyed look at contemporary work culture and the pressures to conform, as well as a charming and completely fresh portrait of an unforgettable heroine.

Unfortunately it hasn't been so popular.
2 years ago I read it.
And --. I couldn't show empathy.
However, my mother loved it.
Until two years ago, she could read books. Since it had been difficult to read books for her, she had enjoyed audible for awhile.
It was really difficult for me to choose her favorite book.
For the first time I chose authors who are as old as my mother. But she said "such books sounds authors proud of their health." So I coincidently choose "convenience store woman". She loved it. It was difficult to listen all of them at once, so she enjoyed listening it little by little every day.

This time, I read it again. And, I couldn't show empathy again. But I understand my mother's feeling. When we get weaker, we won't see or hear others who are in our same generation and spend active lives.

Good morning 0202

 This is cinnamon bread I (HB) baked yesterday. Today it was a simple breakfast. In one and a half hour, we go to a hotel in Nikko. Nikko is always full because it is a famous sightseeing spot. But in winter not so much. So “I “ suddenly decided to have lunch at a hotel. Nikko , it is in the same prefecture, probably this season it takes one hour more by car to go there . We go just to have lunch. It is all right. We will enjoy luxurious time for a while.  




Wednesday, February 01, 2023

Good morning 0201

 

February has started. 

It is a cold morning, but it seems to get warm during the daytime. Yuki has already left for playing golf. He was wondering if the ground was frozen,

Today I will also be active. I am going to a volunteer center after a long several and talk about our (my) activity from April. 


Tuesday, January 31, 2023

Good morning 0131

 

It is the last day in January. I hope this severe cold weather will be end next month.

I  keep our household (or retirement life) accounts. As we expected our utility costs have gone up than last month. The price of electricity went up. More than that we used more kerosene.

An interesting thing is that  compared last January, our utility costs  were a little bit higher, not shied a big difference. Because I didn’t use lights , a heater, and an electric carpet in my class room. So I saved the utility costs. Well, considering more, the means of no showering big difference is that, the price of electricity went up.

Monday, January 30, 2023

Good morning 0130

 

A new Monday has started. It is sunny, though it is cold. Today in the morning we go to the department store . It is 30th today. Every 30th  a famous Japanese sweet in Kyushu area is sold there. We will buy one as a present to my friend as a way of congratulating her on her recent release from the hospital. Well, it might be excuse. Because i love it. So of course I will buy one for myself. We also have some errands downtown. So in the morning we are busy. “We”, yes, Yuki is with me. He doesn’t go playing tennis today.


Sunday, January 29, 2023

My pension

 Finally from next month I will get my pension, though it is patial amount. In 2 years I can get full amount. 


The other day when I knew a piece of news in France, I was very surprised. It is said that; more than a million people marched in France on Thursday to protest pension reforms. President Emmanuel Macron is planning to extend the retirement age from 62 to 64. People say "why we need to work more”




I was really surprised.


Here in Japan, our government recommends for us to work more, and to try to get pension when people reach 70. "Let's work as long as you possible!"


Probably one reason is to delay payment of pension because of financial reason. Another reason is to keep enough labor force. And  another reason might be to keep healthy life expectancy having connection with society. 


Actually some people want to work as long as possible, even if they are not self-employed people. Until 20 or 15 years ago, it was a natural thing that when people (business men and women) reached 60, they retired. At that time, pension payment started when people reached 60. But now it is changed. Usually we can get full amount of pension when we reach 65. 


When Yuki decided to retire when he was 60, many people (including me) asked him why he wouldn’t extend his retirement age because he could remain at work, though payment style would change. 

Probably here in Japan some people think working is virtue. ( in my case, just I was worried about financial situation of our retirement life, because I am not independent financially.)


So the phrase “why we need to work more “ and their acts of marching made me surprised. 


Is it right that European people think labor is a sin ?


Of course if they have financial problems, they need to work. Or they are really eager to work, they continue their work without thinking about their salary.


It depends on people. So I was really surprised to know more than million people marched against expanding retirement age.


Additionally here in Japan, most people say my favorite phrase, it can’t be helped.


Saturday, January 28, 2023

lunch diary 0128 


Monday; it was a really cold day. But we had to go out to do errands. The two of us went to the mall at the station. So, though it wasn't ramen, we ate dumplings and came back. I often fried frozen dumplings at home,  but it's more delicious to have them "fried" at a restaurant. we were stuck at home in the afternoon.

Tuesday: In the morning, Yuki dropped me off and picked me up at a clinic which  I had booked a long time ago. So, we agreed to eat at a ramen shop called "Hanabishi" for our lunch. According to the forecast, this day was supposed to be "a very cold day", but it wasn't much cold. However, a promise is a promise, and we went to the  ramen shop that my husband wanted to visit. Of course, my husband was "thick TSUKEMEN".

Wednesday; It had snowed the night before and it wasn't "heavy", but my husband's tennis is off. For some reason, I  went to the gym for 30 minutes as usual. Because Yuki dropped me off and picked me up in front of the gym. I cooked  Chinese cabbage soup early morning. So we could  keep warm to have it for our lunch and dinner.

Thursday; the weather was fine, but the wind was cold. I mashed the pumpkin, put the egg in the middle like cocotte style. It had much volume. Somehow, I thought that I would be able to organize my kimono in the afternoon, but it was a little hectic. However, since I've put out the kimono, I could think" why don't we go to a department store to buy luxurious delicatessen"  It was a calm day for me.

Friday; I cooked chicken bowl.  I didn't wrap it with egg. It was a colder day than yesterday. Even though I went out in the morning and turned on the stove as soon as I got home, the temperature did not exceed 10 degrees. Oh, it's normal that when we wake up early morning , the heater shows 0 degrees at first. 0 degrees means negative. Because it can't show minus degree.


This is Yuki's "Thick TSUKEMEN".
In the youtube I show only my normal ramen.

Friday, January 27, 2023

Good morning 0127

 

Is it a cold day again? It is cloudy. 

Yesterday, my mom was panicking a little. She was living in the house she was born, and surrounded her relatives.  However my elder daughter didn’t understand what my mom was saying, though she didn’t deny. But my mom got angry saying why my elder daughter didn’t understand. 

So they called me. I knew some people my mom mentioned. So I could understand what she was saying, and while she was talking with me, she came back in Tokyo, and present time. She said “oh, I was in my dream”.  Then she  enjoyed snack time and went to bed again. 

At night I talked with my elder daughter on the video phone. 

Anyway, it was a long afternoon yesterday. 


Thursday, January 26, 2023

Good morning 0126

 

It was really a cold day yesterday, wasn’t it? But in this area we didn’t have much snow. So Yuki drop me off and picked me up at the gym. When I was doing 30 minute exercise, he was at a supermarket and bought delicatessen for our lunch.

It seems to be sunny. For us it is a usual day. He goes to play tennis. I go to the gym again by myself. 

In the afternoon while  I open my “house library” I wait my mother’s call or read books. 

Wednesday, January 25, 2023

Good morning 0125

 

As the weather report said it is snowy. But not so much.

However Yuki’s tennis is cancelled. Does he give me a drive to the gym? I can’t decide whether I should go or not. Anyway my car “wears” winter tire. Yuki’s car doesn’t .













Tuesday, January 24, 2023

Good morning 0124

 

It is cloudy again. And it is colder than yesterday just as the weather report said. And I really know it because I have a slight headache. 

In the mornin I have to go to a clinic, then both of us are going to stay home. We hope it won’t snow. 

Than we expected, we haven’t  had snow yet. 


Additionally today’s lunch menu is already decided. After the clinic we go to ramen noodle restaurant. (Probably).

Monday, January 23, 2023

Good morning 0123

 

Monday has started. It is cloudy, and cold. According to the weather report, it will become much colder tomorrow. Anyway in the morning we are going to station mall to what? To buy Yuki’s favorite ramen noodle. 

Last ninth I talked with  my elder daughter on the phone for more than two weeks. We had a discussion? blaming? a quarrel? It means she really become an adult. On the other hand, I think I am getting older so, I want her ( and my younger daughter) to accept my selfish or frank emotion. Anyway yesterday discussion made me very tired and brought good sleep. 


Saturday, January 21, 2023

lunch diary 0121


Monday; it was rainy. Both of us were at home. We were going to spend the day leisurely, but our iPhones were  replaced, and both of them were struggling to set them up. It should have been "easy"  because we had our own  backup, but we needed to  to reconfigure some things, which was quite difficult. When I told to my daughter, she said, "When you get older, I'll give you a cell phone with only three buttons."

Tuesday; we went to Karaku café. The owner's wife was hospitalized, but she was discharged safely. I was really glad. They keep running their café  "karaku". As long as "karaku" continues, my concert with my friend will continue. It is encouraging to have a place to perform.

Wednesday: I finally went to the gym  to do 30 minute exercise, and went to the library to pick up the reserved book. My turn was 50th. As soon as I got home, I started reading it. I know when I finish reading it, i have to return it as soon as possible, because  the next person should be waiting like me. Probably I will make a reservation for ′′ new published  book ′′ at the library again this year without buying it. 

Thursday: I had an examination at the hospital in the morning. The test results were good, so I made a "pork bowl" at home, even though I thought I wanted to eat  out "tonkatsu" (pork cutlet) to celebrate. But I cooked "pork bowl". Thinking about surging costs for food ----- It also saves money, but in fact, the condition of the stomach is not good enough. I'm a little stumped. Well, it can't be helped.

Friday: fried rice which was expanded the portion with lots of vegetables.  I also put burdock. We are not on a carbon diet.  I only wanted to  make the most of vegetables in the fridge. Thankfully, ′′ Chinese cabbage ′′ has been often presented.

Friday, January 20, 2023

Good morning 0120

 



Good morning. Yesterday I had cholesterol check. Though it is still high, but it gets lower than the highest level before. Do I exercise hard? Yes or no. Probably taking protein supplement works. 

Today I have Haiku meeting. I am the youngest member about age, and about haiku experience. So the members advise me a lot, though it is sometimes (often) strict.  But my friend says it is very important that you have someone who gives elder selfish Mieko strict and accurate advice. 
It is right. 
Additionally I already have such important friend who lives in America. I admire and love her (and her husband).

Wednesday, January 18, 2023

Good morning 0118

 

Yesterday, my group zoom meeting was fun. We read aloud watching this youtube. 

Then,Yuki and I went to Karaku cafe. Finally the wife of the owner was discharged. She was in hospital for 7 days, it was as scheduled. She looked fine.

So, next month my performance at Karaku cafe will be able to be held.

In the evening I dropped in on a senior female neighbor. She was looking for a small bag.  So I did it together. Luckily I found it. Can you guess where it was. It was hidden under the cushion on her chair.






Tuesday, January 17, 2023

Good morning 1117

 

Yesterday, 

A senior female neighbor came to return a book of my home library.  So, I asked A put her thought of the book. And getting her permission I recorded. And I made youtube work. It might be a good tool as advertisement of my home library, and record and history (exaggerated) of my home library. 

Though it is in Japanese, let me introduce it.



Monday, January 16, 2023

Good morning 0116

 

Monday has started. It is rainy. Both of us have no plan, except going to a mail office. Checkout day of books we borrowed at the library is coming. Probably today it is a reading day.

The baked cream cheese cake with Japanese pear which I baked the other day was tasty, so I might bake the one with apple, though I need to go to a nearby supermarket to by cream cheese. 


Saturday, January 14, 2023

lunch diary 1114  


Monday; we had a steamed meat bun and a steamed sweet red beans bun. I was surprised that the calorie  of  them  was 600 kcal. We went to the library and wandered around. Finally, we visited a local shrine nearby. 

Tuesday; As long as you add plenty of bonito flakes, "yaki-udon" fried Udon noodle won't go wrong. It was a  windy day, according to the weather forecast. My husband went to play tennis in good spirits, but I ended up staying at home. 

Wednesday; My gastroscopy examine ended successfully, though I have a  chronic gastritis. But it didn't go wrong. We had blanch at KOMEDA café. Though they still served Morning set. It was not enough, so around 2 o'clock,  we had simmered vegetable as a snack? or as a late lunch.

Thursday; Well, there were various reasons --no, there was nothing special. Anyway we went tout look for my husband's at-home clothes. In the end, we decided to eat outside... at a curry shop for the first time in a long time. "Nan" (Indian bread)  was delicious.  For the time being, Yuki got a new at-home clothes  in which  it is all right to go to  a nearby convenience store. 

Friday; Also yaki udon. I bought three packs of Udon, because the price was reasonable. Anyway I was able to spend them without wasting them. This time, the taste is like  grilled meat, so the yaki-udon had a full of volume. The leftover was served as appetizer for dinner. In the evening, a friend came over and ate "shiruko" (sweet red beans soup)  with  Kagamimochi (New Year's rice cake) together.




Friday, January 13, 2023

Yuki's at-home clothes

This winter seems to be colder than last year.

This winter Yuki and I are also trying to find the common ground about Yuki's at-home clothes.

You might think --- what does it mean?

You must think people put on what they want to. Of course if the place to go has some dress code, you should follow it. If you don't, you will be in trouble.

So today's story is a nonsense story.

Well, when Yuki was a business man, he had four types of clothes ; for business trip, for usual business  (he didn't need to wear a suit at the office, so he used to wear a polo shirt and UNIQUELO pants), sports wear (for tennis, and for golf), and  pajamas. (Clothes for special occasions is a whole other story.)  

He was barely at home in day time. So when he was at home he wore pajamas.

Now, he stays home, though in the morning he plays tennis. He is also a homemaker now like me. So he has lots of things to do at home or in our residential area before going to play tennis.

Here in Japan, we should take out garbage on collection days to our residential collection garbage area. He has started doing it. And he thought it was not good to go there in pajamas.

So he realized he needed to change the clothes from pajamas to at-home clothes Since then he has looked for suitable and relaxed "at-home clothes".

Well, in summer we don't have any problems. Because mainly he wears T-shirts and half pants even when he plays tennis.  (Additionally T-shirts and half pants which are worn out are downgraded eventually into at-home clothes and then into pajamas.)  

At first he wanted upgraded pajamas which didn't look like pajamas. But it was difficult for him to find what he wanted.

Next he started looking for relaxed? loose or wide? at-home clothes like sweat suits or track suits. But for me they looked too sloppy and they looked like just pajamas. He also seemed to think so. 

This is because at the garbage collection area, he often sees neighbors. And senior male neighbors don't wear such sweat suits or track suits. (They usually wear shirts and pants even in early morning.)

So, last winter anyway we managed to find his "at-home clothes" which are all right to wear when taking out garbage.

Then he thought he wanted to go to the nearby convenience store in his "at-home clothes." There he sees more of his acquittances. It means his at-home clothes needed to be upgraded.

We finally realized the important point is "width".  Wide type looks like pajamas. Skinny type looks fashionable but not comfortable at home.

Then we found one brand in a home center at a reasonable price. Of course we bought two. So he can wear the second in turn when the other one is in laundry. 















From the top, they are pants for tennis, pants for home and going out nearby, then pajamas.



Good morning 0113

 

Yesterday it was busier than usual. As scheduled I went to the gym and did stretch yoga at home as soon as I got home. Nowadays I don’t nay stretch exercise at the gym, instead of it I do at home seeing a yoga youtube. 

Then , suddenly we decided to go out for shopping, because Yuki suddenly decided to up grade his “home wear”. 

Later let me talk (write) about “our” Yuki’s home ware problem. You must think you put on what you want to. It is right. I put on what  I want to. Yuki puts on what he wants to when he plays tennis . However———.

As soon as we got home, I had a call from my mom. 

Then I did 30-minute walking exercise. As soon as I got home, I got a call from a friend, saying that she was heading for me. 

She came and we shared “oshiruko” because the day of yesterday it was “kagamibiraki.

 Kagami Biraki" is the event of eating "Kagami Mochi" at the end of the New Year.





Thursday, January 12, 2023

Good morning 0112

 

I had a gastroscopy yesterday.  The result was not so bad, though I have still a gastritis. 

Today it is warmer than yesterday.   Will go to the gym, and I also will walking exercise.

The doctor said, “it is all right to lie down when you are tired even though it is from mental problem, but if it is too much, your physical power lower more. “

Sometimes I think why I became such a woman who doesn’t like exercise, and sports. And I don’t know since when I didn’t  like sports very much. I have a memory that when I was a child I always play outside. 



Tuesday, January 10, 2023

Good morning 0110

 

Today it is a collection day of the recyclables. It is the first time in this year. We took out lots of beer cans. For Yuki it was a good excuse to drink beer, well to tell the truth it is not beer, it is “low-priced beer-like beverage”to stay with our younger daughter. And for younger daughter it was a good excuse to drink. Both of them drink. On the other hand our elder daughter doesn’t drink. 
Additionally we also took out lots of milk cartons. They are also recyclables. Because our granddaughter were staying with us.


Monday, January 09, 2023

Good morning 0109

 

Monday has started. Though it is a holiday, for us it is a usual Monday.  We are going to the library.
This morning we still saw almost full moon. The first full moon day was the day before yesterday. We forgot to see it. 

Saturday, January 07, 2023

Our New Year's Vacation


The first day of this year
We could see the first sunrise  from the upstairs, though just I opened the shutters as usual.  We saw the first sunrise again this year. And 2023 has started. 
To tell the truth for us it seems to be difficult to catch up the  big changes. However, we would like to live our days gently  like a willow, without resisting needlessly, without worrying about small things.

New Year's feast
I made what I like for New Year's feast . For some reason, I like "KOROMAME" which is boiled "hard" . The " Kinton"(sweet potatoes' paste)  should also be “not sweet”, though I bought sweet boiled chestnuts. However, I also want something that looks "presentable". So I bought a Western-style "Osechi". How long can we afford to get this luxury? It depends on how many people are gathering.

Visiting shrines
There is "Gamou Shrine". It is the god of learning, and there is a pillar that can pass through pencils. If you pass a pencil through quickly on the hole in it,   you can complete your studies without difficulty. Candidates passed through their pencil with the name of the school they were taking the exam on.
We "climbed" to a shrine on the mountain (just a hill) . My right knee is not so good. So I have supporter on it. As of now, my husband is fine, he doesn't have  tennis elbows. I would like to continue walking well so that my knee does not get worse. 
We've also offer money to  the "husband and wife cedar". Anyway,  our life consists on two of us. Both of us, want to spend our time in good health, while shoring up our shortcomings each other. Our days tend to blame each shortcomings.  It might be good we can say what we think without hesitating. But  we're getting more impatient....

At café KARAKU
We had a little coffee break.  This is our familiar coffee shop. We visited there  saying hello. The master is over 75 years old, this year. His wife is also over 70. We want them  to continue this café  as long as possible without retiring. Price of various things is increasing. The master seems to be thinking about the offer price.

Having lunch outside
A branch restaurant  called "Kandon" has opened nearby. A kind of beef bowl restaurant? I thought so, but it's a little different. Meat is grilled on the spot. It's a little more expensive than a beef bowl restaurant, but it's more affordable than a yakiniku restaurant. They have some female customers. I'm one of them, and yes, I really like it. I will do my best again this year, having meet. I have a gastro camera next week...is it okay?

Thursday, January 05, 2023

Good morning 0105

 

It is a usual morning. I am gong to the gym today. In the afternoon I will open my home library. A lady might come. 

While our daughter and grand child stayed with us, as soon as I woke up, I had to think three menu plus snack of the day. And without thinking I always set the timer of rice cooker. Now there are only two members, I don’t need to do it. My brain is really lazy. Now, I am thinking do I need to set the timer of rice cooker?



Wednesday, January 04, 2023

2023 has started

 

2023 has started. I continue trying to improve my English. 

Our granddaughter went back yesterday. our usual day gas started. Yuki goes playing tennis. I was going to go to the gym, I organize the rooms in the morning. In the evening some students come. 

Actually I had got a cold without fever and sore throat, so I had had a COVID test by myself with kit before our grand daughter and our younger daughter came. It was negative. Yuki said “ ax usual their coming gives you stress so you feel bad “. Probably it was right.

And, our daughter came with running nose. we were scared, but we were relieved. We thought “Here in Utsunomiya, there are four together, so we are manage to do spend days.”  We could spend new year’s vacation without any trouble. Our daughter came back healthy. 



Thursday, December 29, 2022

lunch diary 1229  Usual last last week of this year


Monday; We went to an apple orchard to  buy the last apple of the year. We also got a  lot of souvenirs. On the way home we had lunch at Chinese restaurant "Bamyan". Oh, "the robots are serving the food." "Should I  take it myself?"  When I  was thinking  that, a clerk came and served me. which one was correct?

Tuesday;  It's strange that I didn't know until now. I found a bottle "beef bowl sauce". It is produced by Ebara food company, so I thought probably it won't be spicy. It was  correct.  But what I made was “Pork bowl”. Well, the number of commercially available sources has increased. whatever. Later, I found out that there was also a sauce for "Pork Bowl", but for now, I use this as well.

Wednesday; we had "brand beef tong" in the freezer, which we bought last month. They were not as stiff as we thought. However, we forgot what Sendai beef tongue tasted like. So, as a lunch item, I'm not sure if it's expensive or reasonable as a brand.

Thursday, I am going to cook some  new year's dishes. So, I started preparing for them, so our lunch was "lunch box" Yuki bought at a nearby supermarket. From tomorrow, the number of people will increase, so the delicatessen will increase, but that's okay. Let's cut corners.






Anyway, the fact that "New Year's decorations" were made means that everyone, including my mother and mother-in-law, is doing well. It is really grateful, isn't it?

Good morning 1229

 

We have no plan, today. 

Probably we go to a nearby supermarket. We are going to spend today lazily. 

Yuki starts organizing his music score.

 I also start reviewing my book list. 

We have something to do. 

Wednesday, December 28, 2022

Good morning 1228

 

It is the last day fir Yuki to play tennis this year. I was going to go to the gym, but I decided to stay home today. One student comes. 

Today’s mission is to get full heaters with kerosene.

The eaters in my house are  portable, basically There is one in each room. Can you guess how many there are? Now there are two members in my house. Tomorrow it is the Kant day for kerosene to be delivered.  

Tuesday, December 27, 2022

Good morning 1227

 

Our house is changed into new year’s decoration. 

Kitchen fan is cleaned. Our winter cleaning is finished. 

Today it is a ten times point day at a nearby supermarket. I have to go and get some special ingredients for new year’s. 

Monday, December 26, 2022

Good morning 1226

 

Christmas week has gone. New Years vacation is just around the corner. I will change our decoration for the New Year.

 Though it is not sure, we will go to an apple orchard to get “bamboo” for the decoration today.


Sunday, December 25, 2022

lunch diary 1225


Monday; They are frozen spring rolls. I deep-fried them a lot.  
We  bought them at a bargain price at "GYOUMU supermarket (mainly customers are shop owners) Also we did walking.
There was one winter rose blooming on the way, but there were rose fruits called "rose hips" around it. I thought that I wanted them but I didn't know the house owner. so I didn't ask. Anyway we walked enough on the day. So I spent the after reading books.

Tuesday; it is day of  half price day for frozen food at a local supermarket. This is "dumplings that don't need water, oil, or a lid" .(according to TV CM) Surprise. They are "Osho (king) gyoza- dumplings".  It was half price, so it was 210 yen. It was like a professional skill.  In front of the supermarket, there is a famous local gyoza shop, but on half-price days, Osho gyoza is more inexpensive..

Wednesday; it was cold. The forecast was supposed to be sunny. It was cold even for having pot-dish " nabeyaki" so I drank cocoa Will my cholesterol rise again? 
If tempura is added to nabeyaki, it will be gorgeous, but cooking tempura is troublesome. It's expensive to buy and troublesome. As long as we have green vegetables, isn't that enough? (I think) 
Additionally the new car came this evening. The previous car has been ridden 120,000 km. Say special thanks to the previous one, and say hello to the new one.

Thursday: It's raining, so my husband doesn't play tennis. I had Yuki drop off and pick me up to the gym. During the 30 minutes of machine training, he was finding side dishes at a nearby supermarket. The budget was 500 Yen... Surprisingly well done. He found two dishes with  red tags. Both husband and wife are now living well in their (our) retirement life. However, they were  all about carbohydrates. I also cooked rice with rice cooker...whatever.

Friday; it was  cold. I was not feeling well. So, our lunch was takeout "kalbi bowl". Recently a new shop opened, Yuki and like it. I like it. Actually, it's a little more expensive than a regular beef bowl restaurant. whatever. It's not a soft type, it's a crunchy type of ribs. It's very helpful to have a store where we can easily take out in the neighborhood.

Saturday, December 24, 2022

Happy holiday!

 

They are this year’s small gift from me to my friends. They are cans for aroma. I stocked then. 

I just two candy in each one, and presented to my friends.

We spend quiet weekend. Happy holiday!


Friday, December 23, 2022

Good morning 1223

 

Yesterday, though it was very cold, I went to the gym. It was good.  Some members who come to the gym at the same in the same time as me were the last time to come this year.  We exchanged the phrase “have a great holiday”.

In the evening a neighbor came.

Well, today’s our mission is going to dentist in the evening. 



Thursday, December 22, 2022

Good morning 1222

 

It is raining. According to the weather report it will stop in a few hours. It is not sure tennis court will be open or not yet. 

Whether I go to the gym is another thing. But raining makes me lazy. 

Yesterday a friend dropped by. She presented flower pots she arranged. Our entrance became really bright.

I baked cinnamon bread for her. 






Wednesday, December 21, 2022

Good morning 1221

 

Yesterday, the meeting or chatting with  just two members including me  was fun. In the afternoon, I also had another 40 minute chatting. 

How I can expand this’s activity?  Anyway it is important to going on. 

Today’s evening Yuki’s car will change into a new one. The new one is smaller than current car, but it is all right. The new one is close to a Jeep. 

My today’s mission is going to the gym. 

Tuesday, December 20, 2022

Good morning 1220

 

Yesterday we visited a shrine on a “small hill. For me it was like climbing a mountain. So I spent the rest of the day lazy. ( though I usually spend most of  the afternoon lazy.) additionally I did yoga stretching much longer than usual at night. 

Today I hold a zoom meeting of our picture book club. Anyway this meeting is continued. Now there are two regular members including me. 



Monday, December 19, 2022

Good morning 1219

 

A new week or Christmas week has started. 

For students, it is the last week to go t school this year. 

World Cup game finished. So, Yuki went to sleep agai after breakfast. Anyway he woke up, took out the garbage, had breakfast, and went to his room. 

Today we have no plan, though the last mission of cleaning kitchen is not done yet. 

We might visit a shrine nearby to refresh. 

Saturday, December 17, 2022

lunch diary 1218 


Monday; I made three kinds of topping on the rice. Each of us put them as much as we wanted. I thought there would be cooked some minced meat left, but all of them has gone.
It was a warmer afternoon than we expected, so Yuki changed the tires of the car to winter tires. He doesn't play on snowy days, so we don't think we'll go out basically. but having winter tires make us relieved. Anyway he could still replace them by himself. Of course it really helped our household budget.  
Additionally he bought "Happo-shu" which  is a kind of carbonated liquor. It usually looks and tastes like beer.

Tuesday: it was a rather cold day. I made Curry udon-noodle hotpot with lots of green onions. It made warm us up. On this day, it was my performance day at café Karaku in the afternoon. This time my friends story telling is all right to be open to the public.  
We are surrounded by Christmas atmosphere when we go to the store. I am supposed to make  apple tarte tatin at home for our Christmas.

Wednesday; Sorry for the bad photo. Stir-fried cabbage and beef with sweet soy sauce. It was all right to change to winter tires, but one of the tires' center cap came off. Yuki says, "It's an accessory, so it doesn't matter for running." But it bothers me. However, it's not a new tire, so it seemed to get it so easily... Finally we  found a used one on the net.

Thursday;  I cooked  garland chrysanthemum. This year, the garland chrysanthemums seems to be a bountiful harvest, so thankfully, someone sometimes gives it to us.
In the afternoon, we walked to a new drug store that opened yesterday. Even though it was open yesterday, and in the middle of the day, there was a long line at the register. All items were 10% discount on all items, but at another shop it was the day of 10 times points, so we came back empty-handed. Anyway  this is the 4th drug store near my house. Why?

Friday I steamed mizuna with fish. It was the first time to cook fish for this week.
But, "It doesn't seem to be enough" ... "Meat at night". Yuki said. Well, what shall I cook at night? In the morning, I attended a "haiku meeting". This time, my haiku was also selected. "Keep plugging away With  two rice  bowls  Christmas" .  We'll Spend Christmas as usual. New year meeting is waiting.

Friday, December 16, 2022

Good morning 1216

 It is not painful today as it was yesterday.  I didn’t go to any clinic. I did yoga longer than usual in the afternoon and at night.  Today I have a Haiku meeting. A weekend comes. YukiKs role of winter cleaning is almost finished. He added ‘scrubbing bathroom h shower his role. Then he bought some new scrubbing kits and detergent. By watching TV , he was really interested them. A kind of detergent was sold out, so he  got it online. “Scrubbing in December is his new hobby” he accepted this phrase. 

Anyway our last mission of winter cleaning is cleaning the  kitchen fan.


Thursday, December 15, 2022

Good morning 1215

 

My lower-waist hurts. ( not lower-back) .

My regular acupuncturist is off, today. I might go osteopathic clinic to eat massage. 

Anyway it is cold today. 

Next Yuki’s  new car comes. “According to our schedule” our retirement savings was used.(decreased)

Quiet Christmas comes in a week, doesn’t it?

Tuesday, December 13, 2022

story telling "Christmas gifts" by TAKEHISA YUMEJI at cafe Karaku


Yesterday it was my performance day with my friend at Karaku.
She reads an classic Japanese story. Takehisa Yumeji is a very famous painter and a poetry. He also writes some novels.
Anyway I added subtitle translated in English by me.

And thanks Ms.J --- to allow to use your photos.

Monday, December 12, 2022

troubleshooter 1210

The following advice column might sound nothing special for foreigners whose native language is English. However the column written in English made me very surprised. Because the counselor expresses her love or affection to her husband very frankly and honestly. Probably she might had experienced very hard days before she married. 

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 I want to keep distance from my mother and elder sister

 

My relationship with my mother who is in her 80’s and my elder sister is painful.

I’m in my 50’s. I’ve been nursing my husband for 10 years.

My mother has always been doting on my elder sister only. When it’s convenient for her, she asks a favor or says nasty things about our relatives to me.

 My elder sister lives near my house. When the three of us are together, she always butters her up, when she and I are together, she always says nasty things about my mother. And she always speaks in an authoritative tone to me.

My father passed away in his 50’s from cancer. At that time my mother was busy with her work, so I was in charge of nursing him.

After my father passed away, I lost my place in the house, left home and married my husband. He is a savior, he came to my rescue from my mother’s house. He is really gentle, so I don’t care nursing him.

Now I want to keep distance from my mother and elder sister, but instead give priority to my husband and live with him peacefully. However my father willed “get along with your sister”. I sometimes feel sorry for my mother. What should I do?


The answer of an advisor who is a writer, is

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Life is not always calm, we have a tailwind, a head wind, or sometimes storm.

However you are really happy though you are nursing your husband who you love as your savior, aren’t you? You focus on your life and live calmly and quietly. You have done enough because you nursed your father as much as you could 

It is said that children who weren’t given enough love from their mothers tend to not be free because of being hung up on their mothers. You can’t go against your mother or your elder sister. You might be hung up on them.

However parents usually want their children who left their nest to be happy, even though they feel lonely. You believe it. You only tell your mother frankly “Sorry, Mom. Now my priority is my husband. I am nursing him. “

If you bear pain and push yourself too hard, nothing good will happen. It’s a good excuse to say that your priority is your husband. So you should keep distance from people who give you pain. Whatever they say, you hold your freedom of mind, and control your happiness by yourself. 


Good morning 1212

 

A new week has started.

Today we have some errands, so go out. 

Now, we are thinking , even though we have just finished breakfast, what  we will have lunch ‘outside’. 

Or, we might eat ‘takeout’ at home. 

Our usual days are always based on what we eat. 

Sunday, December 11, 2022

lunch diary 1211 


Monday;  Our eldest daughter came and stayed one night.  I forgot taking the photo of the  lunch picture at  "Gyukaku" which is a grilled meat restaurant." It was really nice service to serve  chocolate and hot green tea at the end. They gave us a relief. Recently, there are many "all-you-can-eat" menus at grilled meat restaurants , so we are grateful that they offer individual lunches at a reasonable price. I would like to keep the price unchanged, what do you think? 
My eldest daughter says that she may not come at end of the year, so we visited a shrine to thank for this year, and ask next year's peace and improvement.

Tuesday; we were supposed to have lunch separately, but each schedule changed so we got together. She wanted to eat heavily , so we went to a A long-established restaurant. The still offer at 880 yen for lunch. It is very  is attractive.
I asked "My rice was "just a little". " Although it is not in the picture, she had a horse mackerel set meal with soba. My husband had curry rice with "kakiage" deep-fried mixed vegetables soba.
After eating well, she  returned to Tokyo, saying, "I don't want to have dinner today." My husband had usual dinner.

Wednesday ; Our usual days came back. It's my specialty:  lettuce fried rice. At this time of year, I don't like fresh cold lettuce in salads. lettuce? No, this is a "Sancyu". When we have grilled meat, we eat meat wrapped with it.
A lot of apples also arrived, and I made an apple candle with the pointed leaves like fir leaves.

Thursday I cooked the famous "Fukaya green onion'' I used it up and served  as a bowl of green onion. I didn't know that "Fukaya green onion" itself became a season word for haiku. Because it is famous and expensive. Thanks to my friend who sent it.
On this day, I finally resumed walking exercise. I hope the warm days continue.

Friday, The lunch looks like the same of the yesterday's. But I used burdock. I also had green onions again.
I cooked a lot of  whole yuzu which were simmered with honey,  and they were  so good that I made them again for the second time.
I made a lot of beef, green onion, and burdock stew, so I thought  we had  enough for dinner. But Yuki said " I wanted something else"  so we went to "Matsunoya", which opened nearby recently and took out a piece of cutlet for "his" dinner.

Thursday, December 08, 2022

an article of "Ms. Mieko's home library

 My project "Ms. Mieko's home library" was introduced on an article.

So I tried to translate it in English.


Ms. Mieko’s home library

A new “MIN TOSYO” private library has opened in Utsunomiya. 

The main collection of “Ms. Mieko’s home library” is English picture books.

Though she runs her English school, it will close next year. She was thinking about how to make her English picture book collection useful after she closes her school. She found the group of “MIN TOSYO”, and joined the group. Now Ms. H is a director of her library. (Well, she has a staff, who is her husband who retired recently.) 

About thirty years ago, she opened a piano school at home. Then her family joined a voluntary group and started to accept international students, then she also started her English school.

At that time foreign countries’ culture or events like Halloween, Easter and so on were not so popular. So she started to collect English picture books to introduce such culture or events easily with fun,

She also got the picture books which were translated in Japanese. She says it is really interesting how they are translated in Japanese. 

She says “I would like others to enjoy these books with ease and fun.” with a good smile. Now she is organizing her private library project little by little.

Some of her books are already out of print. Listening to her explanation of these books, feeling her affection for these books, and talking with her were very wonderful and very precious time for me. 

Ms. H also does voluntary reading of English picture books at Utsunomiya East library, though for a while it was stopped because of this coronavirus pandemic.

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In Utsunomiya there is an official private library. "Official" means there library is registered on the list of MINTOSYO. My library isn't registered.

At the private library, they introduce some of my books.



Good morning 1208

 

It is sunny again. 

I will do exercise as much as I did yesrerday.

Yesterday, I did “too much” exercise. Going to the Gym in the morning and in the afternoon I did walking for longer distance than I thought. But it was over 6000 steps. 

The exercise seemed to be too much for me. The rest of the day I didn’t want to do anything. 

On the other hand I realized that my less physical power. This coldness is one reason. 

Anyway I have to train my self physically. 


Well, I wrote what I thought —- I don’t know what I will be a lie to do today. 

Wednesday, December 07, 2022

Good morning 1207

 

Usual days of two of us have started. Yuki has already left to play golf. Got these two days it was very cold. Today it seems to be sunny and warmer than yesterday. Lucky him!

I am going to go to the gym. 

Tuesday, December 06, 2022

Good morning 1206

 

A few minutes ago, my elder daughter left here. We had breakfast together. Yuki is still sleeping, because he was watching the soccer game for the midnight. Unfortunately Japan couldn’t win. 

Probably she won’t come this new year vacation. So we went to a shrine to say thank of this year, and pray for the next year yesterday. Though it was raining we had a good drive. Of course the driver was Yuki. 



Monday, December 05, 2022

Good morning 1205

 

A new week has started. It seems to be colder than yesterday. Yesterday I made this star-cereal bar and have a friend.

Today my elder daughter comes to update her driver’s license. So Yuki stays home without play tennis. We are going to eat out something outside. 


Saturday, December 03, 2022

lunch diary 1203 


Monday; It's a crabmeat omelet. But it's not real crabmeat. It's imitation crab called "Kanikam" . My husband saw "Kanikama Best 10" on TV and went to buy the imitation crab, but we couldn't find them.
In the afternoon, we went to my friend who has large field, and got some vegetables. How do I cook them?

Tuesday; Misuji ( top blade) steak.  We could get them on sale at a supermarket. But enough. I sautéed leaves of radish quickly. The green color shines as garnish. I haven't used the carrots my friend gave yet. Anyway I froze the fresh leaves. I hear that it will be flakey naturally and a substitute for parsley.

Wednesday; The expiration date of preserved rice is coming soon. This week, we are going to eat up them all. 
A lot of persimmons have suddenly arrived, and I tried to used them up cooking for  jam, dried persimmons, and so on.

Thursday; We got lot of Shungiku, garland chrysanthemum. I cooked them lavishly.
I also had a lot of cinnamon, so  in the afternoon I baked cinnamon bread with HB. It smelled good in our house. Well, some people are not good at it.

Friday; This is Tasai. My image is that Tasai suits to beef. I bought some beef. In the old days, we think that it was only served at Chinese restaurants. We are happy that we can enjoy various things now.

Friday, December 02, 2022

Good morning 1202

 

Japan won. Yuki got up early to watch the live game. I was not going to do it. But —- I am sleepy now.

Yuki said “ I got up very early naturally, it was miracle, so this miracle brought victory to Japan”. I think a lot of Japanese people said the same thing.

I baked cinnamon bread with HB. Today’s breakfast is fruit, fruit, and fruit. 

Apple, persimmon jam, and yuzu citron &carrto jam.

P.S about yesterday's peanuts article, my friend shared this site. Thanks.



Thursday, December 01, 2022

Good morning 1201

 

December has come. 

Though probably we will spend our days as usual, we feel busy. 

We share roasted peanuts to our friends. Here in Japan (or Utsunomiua) it is not so easy to get uncooked peanuts. And I think fresh roasted peanuts are tasty. Actually our friends seemed to be happy.

Well, we hear “be careful! If you eat too much peanuts, you have a nosebleed!”

Have you heard of it?


P.S my friend shared this site. Thanks.