Thursday, February 02, 2023
Have you already read "All the lovers in the night"?
Good morning 0202
This is cinnamon bread I (HB) baked yesterday. Today it was a simple breakfast. In one and a half hour, we go to a hotel in Nikko. Nikko is always full because it is a famous sightseeing spot. But in winter not so much. So “I “ suddenly decided to have lunch at a hotel. Nikko , it is in the same prefecture, probably this season it takes one hour more by car to go there . We go just to have lunch. It is all right. We will enjoy luxurious time for a while.
Wednesday, February 01, 2023
Good morning 0201
February has started.
It is a cold morning, but it seems to get warm during the daytime. Yuki has already left for playing golf. He was wondering if the ground was frozen,
Today I will also be active. I am going to a volunteer center after a long several and talk about our (my) activity from April.
Tuesday, January 31, 2023
Good morning 0131
It is the last day in January. I hope this severe cold weather will be end next month.
I keep our household (or retirement life) accounts. As we expected our utility costs have gone up than last month. The price of electricity went up. More than that we used more kerosene.
An interesting thing is that compared last January, our utility costs were a little bit higher, not shied a big difference. Because I didn’t use lights , a heater, and an electric carpet in my class room. So I saved the utility costs. Well, considering more, the means of no showering big difference is that, the price of electricity went up.
Monday, January 30, 2023
Good morning 0130
A new Monday has started. It is sunny, though it is cold. Today in the morning we go to the department store . It is 30th today. Every 30th a famous Japanese sweet in Kyushu area is sold there. We will buy one as a present to my friend as a way of congratulating her on her recent release from the hospital. Well, it might be excuse. Because i love it. So of course I will buy one for myself. We also have some errands downtown. So in the morning we are busy. “We”, yes, Yuki is with me. He doesn’t go playing tennis today.
Sunday, January 29, 2023
My pension
Finally from next month I will get my pension, though it is patial amount. In 2 years I can get full amount.
The other day when I knew a piece of news in France, I was very surprised. It is said that; more than a million people marched in France on Thursday to protest pension reforms. President Emmanuel Macron is planning to extend the retirement age from 62 to 64. People say "why we need to work more”
I was really surprised.
Here in Japan, our government recommends for us to work more, and to try to get pension when people reach 70. "Let's work as long as you possible!"
Probably one reason is to delay payment of pension because of financial reason. Another reason is to keep enough labor force. And another reason might be to keep healthy life expectancy having connection with society.
Actually some people want to work as long as possible, even if they are not self-employed people. Until 20 or 15 years ago, it was a natural thing that when people (business men and women) reached 60, they retired. At that time, pension payment started when people reached 60. But now it is changed. Usually we can get full amount of pension when we reach 65.
When Yuki decided to retire when he was 60, many people (including me) asked him why he wouldn’t extend his retirement age because he could remain at work, though payment style would change.
Probably here in Japan some people think working is virtue. ( in my case, just I was worried about financial situation of our retirement life, because I am not independent financially.)
So the phrase “why we need to work more “ and their acts of marching made me surprised.
Is it right that European people think labor is a sin ?
Of course if they have financial problems, they need to work. Or they are really eager to work, they continue their work without thinking about their salary.
It depends on people. So I was really surprised to know more than million people marched against expanding retirement age.
Additionally here in Japan, most people say my favorite phrase, it can’t be helped.
Saturday, January 28, 2023
lunch diary 0128
Friday, January 27, 2023
Good morning 0127
Is it a cold day again? It is cloudy.
Yesterday, my mom was panicking a little. She was living in the house she was born, and surrounded her relatives. However my elder daughter didn’t understand what my mom was saying, though she didn’t deny. But my mom got angry saying why my elder daughter didn’t understand.
So they called me. I knew some people my mom mentioned. So I could understand what she was saying, and while she was talking with me, she came back in Tokyo, and present time. She said “oh, I was in my dream”. Then she enjoyed snack time and went to bed again.
At night I talked with my elder daughter on the video phone.
Anyway, it was a long afternoon yesterday.
Thursday, January 26, 2023
Good morning 0126
It was really a cold day yesterday, wasn’t it? But in this area we didn’t have much snow. So Yuki drop me off and picked me up at the gym. When I was doing 30 minute exercise, he was at a supermarket and bought delicatessen for our lunch.
It seems to be sunny. For us it is a usual day. He goes to play tennis. I go to the gym again by myself.
In the afternoon while I open my “house library” I wait my mother’s call or read books.
Wednesday, January 25, 2023
Good morning 0125
As the weather report said it is snowy. But not so much.
However Yuki’s tennis is cancelled. Does he give me a drive to the gym? I can’t decide whether I should go or not. Anyway my car “wears” winter tire. Yuki’s car doesn’t .
Tuesday, January 24, 2023
Good morning 0124
It is cloudy again. And it is colder than yesterday just as the weather report said. And I really know it because I have a slight headache.
In the mornin I have to go to a clinic, then both of us are going to stay home. We hope it won’t snow.
Than we expected, we haven’t had snow yet.
Additionally today’s lunch menu is already decided. After the clinic we go to ramen noodle restaurant. (Probably).
Monday, January 23, 2023
Good morning 0123
Monday has started. It is cloudy, and cold. According to the weather report, it will become much colder tomorrow. Anyway in the morning we are going to station mall to what? To buy Yuki’s favorite ramen noodle.
Last ninth I talked with my elder daughter on the phone for more than two weeks. We had a discussion? blaming? a quarrel? It means she really become an adult. On the other hand, I think I am getting older so, I want her ( and my younger daughter) to accept my selfish or frank emotion. Anyway yesterday discussion made me very tired and brought good sleep.
Saturday, January 21, 2023
lunch diary 0121
Friday, January 20, 2023
Good morning 0120
Good morning. Yesterday I had cholesterol check. Though it is still high, but it gets lower than the highest level before. Do I exercise hard? Yes or no. Probably taking protein supplement works.
Wednesday, January 18, 2023
Good morning 0118
Yesterday, my group zoom meeting was fun. We read aloud watching this youtube.
Then,Yuki and I went to Karaku cafe. Finally the wife of the owner was discharged. She was in hospital for 7 days, it was as scheduled. She looked fine.
So, next month my performance at Karaku cafe will be able to be held.
In the evening I dropped in on a senior female neighbor. She was looking for a small bag. So I did it together. Luckily I found it. Can you guess where it was. It was hidden under the cushion on her chair.
Tuesday, January 17, 2023
Good morning 1117
Yesterday,
A senior female neighbor came to return a book of my home library. So, I asked A put her thought of the book. And getting her permission I recorded. And I made youtube work. It might be a good tool as advertisement of my home library, and record and history (exaggerated) of my home library.
Though it is in Japanese, let me introduce it.
Monday, January 16, 2023
Good morning 0116
Monday has started. It is rainy. Both of us have no plan, except going to a mail office. Checkout day of books we borrowed at the library is coming. Probably today it is a reading day.
Saturday, January 14, 2023
lunch diary 1114
Friday, January 13, 2023
Yuki's at-home clothes
This winter seems to be colder than last year.
This winter Yuki and I are also trying to find the common ground about Yuki's at-home clothes.
You might think --- what does it mean?
You must think people put on what they want to. Of course if the place to go has some dress code, you should follow it. If you don't, you will be in trouble.
So today's story is a nonsense story.
Well, when Yuki was a business man, he had four types of clothes ; for business trip, for usual business (he didn't need to wear a suit at the office, so he used to wear a polo shirt and UNIQUELO pants), sports wear (for tennis, and for golf), and pajamas. (Clothes for special occasions is a whole other story.)
He was barely at home in day time. So when he was at home he wore pajamas.
Now, he stays home, though in the morning he plays tennis. He is also a homemaker now like me. So he has lots of things to do at home or in our residential area before going to play tennis.
Here in Japan, we should take out garbage on collection days to our residential collection garbage area. He has started doing it. And he thought it was not good to go there in pajamas.
So he realized he needed to change the clothes from pajamas to at-home clothes Since then he has looked for suitable and relaxed "at-home clothes".
Well, in summer we don't have any problems. Because mainly he wears T-shirts and half pants even when he plays tennis. (Additionally T-shirts and half pants which are worn out are downgraded eventually into at-home clothes and then into pajamas.)
At first he wanted upgraded pajamas which didn't look like pajamas. But it was difficult for him to find what he wanted.
Next he started looking for relaxed? loose or wide? at-home clothes like sweat suits or track suits. But for me they looked too sloppy and they looked like just pajamas. He also seemed to think so.
This is because at the garbage collection area, he often sees neighbors. And senior male neighbors don't wear such sweat suits or track suits. (They usually wear shirts and pants even in early morning.)
So, last winter anyway we managed to find his "at-home clothes" which are all right to wear when taking out garbage.
Then he thought he wanted to go to the nearby convenience store in his "at-home clothes." There he sees more of his acquittances. It means his at-home clothes needed to be upgraded.
We finally realized the important point is "width". Wide type looks like pajamas. Skinny type looks fashionable but not comfortable at home.
Then we found one brand in a home center at a reasonable price. Of course we bought two. So he can wear the second in turn when the other one is in laundry.
From the top, they are pants for tennis, pants for home and going out nearby, then pajamas.
Good morning 0113
Yesterday it was busier than usual. As scheduled I went to the gym and did stretch yoga at home as soon as I got home. Nowadays I don’t nay stretch exercise at the gym, instead of it I do at home seeing a yoga youtube.
Then , suddenly we decided to go out for shopping, because Yuki suddenly decided to up grade his “home wear”.
Later let me talk (write) about “our” Yuki’s home ware problem. You must think you put on what you want to. It is right. I put on what I want to. Yuki puts on what he wants to when he plays tennis . However———.
As soon as we got home, I had a call from my mom.
Then I did 30-minute walking exercise. As soon as I got home, I got a call from a friend, saying that she was heading for me.
She came and we shared “oshiruko” because the day of yesterday it was “kagamibiraki.
Kagami Biraki" is the event of eating "Kagami Mochi" at the end of the New Year.
Thursday, January 12, 2023
Good morning 0112
I had a gastroscopy yesterday. The result was not so bad, though I have still a gastritis.
Today it is warmer than yesterday. Will go to the gym, and I also will walking exercise.
The doctor said, “it is all right to lie down when you are tired even though it is from mental problem, but if it is too much, your physical power lower more. “
Sometimes I think why I became such a woman who doesn’t like exercise, and sports. And I don’t know since when I didn’t like sports very much. I have a memory that when I was a child I always play outside.
Tuesday, January 10, 2023
Good morning 0110
Today it is a collection day of the recyclables. It is the first time in this year. We took out lots of beer cans. For Yuki it was a good excuse to drink beer, well to tell the truth it is not beer, it is “low-priced beer-like beverage”to stay with our younger daughter. And for younger daughter it was a good excuse to drink. Both of them drink. On the other hand our elder daughter doesn’t drink.
Monday, January 09, 2023
Good morning 0109
Monday has started. Though it is a holiday, for us it is a usual Monday. We are going to the library.
Saturday, January 07, 2023
Our New Year's Vacation
Thursday, January 05, 2023
Good morning 0105
It is a usual morning. I am gong to the gym today. In the afternoon I will open my home library. A lady might come.
While our daughter and grand child stayed with us, as soon as I woke up, I had to think three menu plus snack of the day. And without thinking I always set the timer of rice cooker. Now there are only two members, I don’t need to do it. My brain is really lazy. Now, I am thinking do I need to set the timer of rice cooker?
Wednesday, January 04, 2023
2023 has started
2023 has started. I continue trying to improve my English.
Our granddaughter went back yesterday. our usual day gas started. Yuki goes playing tennis. I was going to go to the gym, I organize the rooms in the morning. In the evening some students come.
Actually I had got a cold without fever and sore throat, so I had had a COVID test by myself with kit before our grand daughter and our younger daughter came. It was negative. Yuki said “ ax usual their coming gives you stress so you feel bad “. Probably it was right.
And, our daughter came with running nose. we were scared, but we were relieved. We thought “Here in Utsunomiya, there are four together, so we are manage to do spend days.” We could spend new year’s vacation without any trouble. Our daughter came back healthy.
Thursday, December 29, 2022
lunch diary 1229 Usual last last week of this year
Good morning 1229
We have no plan, today.
Probably we go to a nearby supermarket. We are going to spend today lazily.
Yuki starts organizing his music score.
I also start reviewing my book list.
We have something to do.
Wednesday, December 28, 2022
Good morning 1228
It is the last day fir Yuki to play tennis this year. I was going to go to the gym, but I decided to stay home today. One student comes.
Today’s mission is to get full heaters with kerosene.
The eaters in my house are portable, basically There is one in each room. Can you guess how many there are? Now there are two members in my house. Tomorrow it is the Kant day for kerosene to be delivered.
Tuesday, December 27, 2022
Good morning 1227
Our house is changed into new year’s decoration.
Kitchen fan is cleaned. Our winter cleaning is finished.
Today it is a ten times point day at a nearby supermarket. I have to go and get some special ingredients for new year’s.
Monday, December 26, 2022
Good morning 1226
Christmas week has gone. New Years vacation is just around the corner. I will change our decoration for the New Year.
Though it is not sure, we will go to an apple orchard to get “bamboo” for the decoration today.
Sunday, December 25, 2022
lunch diary 1225
Saturday, December 24, 2022
Happy holiday!
They are this year’s small gift from me to my friends. They are cans for aroma. I stocked then.
I just two candy in each one, and presented to my friends.
We spend quiet weekend. Happy holiday!
Friday, December 23, 2022
Good morning 1223
Yesterday, though it was very cold, I went to the gym. It was good. Some members who come to the gym at the same in the same time as me were the last time to come this year. We exchanged the phrase “have a great holiday”.
In the evening a neighbor came.
Well, today’s our mission is going to dentist in the evening.
Thursday, December 22, 2022
Good morning 1222
It is raining. According to the weather report it will stop in a few hours. It is not sure tennis court will be open or not yet.
Whether I go to the gym is another thing. But raining makes me lazy.
Yesterday a friend dropped by. She presented flower pots she arranged. Our entrance became really bright.
I baked cinnamon bread for her.
Wednesday, December 21, 2022
Good morning 1221
Yesterday, the meeting or chatting with just two members including me was fun. In the afternoon, I also had another 40 minute chatting.
How I can expand this’s activity? Anyway it is important to going on.
Today’s evening Yuki’s car will change into a new one. The new one is smaller than current car, but it is all right. The new one is close to a Jeep.
My today’s mission is going to the gym.
Tuesday, December 20, 2022
Good morning 1220
Yesterday we visited a shrine on a “small hill. For me it was like climbing a mountain. So I spent the rest of the day lazy. ( though I usually spend most of the afternoon lazy.) additionally I did yoga stretching much longer than usual at night.
Today I hold a zoom meeting of our picture book club. Anyway this meeting is continued. Now there are two regular members including me.
Monday, December 19, 2022
Good morning 1219
A new week or Christmas week has started.
For students, it is the last week to go t school this year.
World Cup game finished. So, Yuki went to sleep agai after breakfast. Anyway he woke up, took out the garbage, had breakfast, and went to his room.
Today we have no plan, though the last mission of cleaning kitchen is not done yet.
We might visit a shrine nearby to refresh.
Saturday, December 17, 2022
lunch diary 1218
Friday, December 16, 2022
Good morning 1216
It is not painful today as it was yesterday. I didn’t go to any clinic. I did yoga longer than usual in the afternoon and at night. Today I have a Haiku meeting. A weekend comes. YukiKs role of winter cleaning is almost finished. He added ‘scrubbing bathroom h shower his role. Then he bought some new scrubbing kits and detergent. By watching TV , he was really interested them. A kind of detergent was sold out, so he got it online. “Scrubbing in December is his new hobby” he accepted this phrase.
Anyway our last mission of winter cleaning is cleaning the kitchen fan.
Thursday, December 15, 2022
Good morning 1215
My lower-waist hurts. ( not lower-back) .
My regular acupuncturist is off, today. I might go osteopathic clinic to eat massage.
Anyway it is cold today.
Next Yuki’s new car comes. “According to our schedule” our retirement savings was used.(decreased)
Quiet Christmas comes in a week, doesn’t it?
Tuesday, December 13, 2022
story telling "Christmas gifts" by TAKEHISA YUMEJI at cafe Karaku
Monday, December 12, 2022
troubleshooter 1210
The following advice column might sound nothing special for foreigners whose native language is English. However the column written in English made me very surprised. Because the counselor expresses her love or affection to her husband very frankly and honestly. Probably she might had experienced very hard days before she married.
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I want to keep distance from my mother and elder sister
My relationship with my mother who is in her 80’s and my elder sister is painful.
I’m in my 50’s. I’ve been nursing my husband for 10 years.
My mother has always been doting on my elder sister only. When it’s convenient for her, she asks a favor or says nasty things about our relatives to me.
My elder sister lives near my house. When the three of us are together, she always butters her up, when she and I are together, she always says nasty things about my mother. And she always speaks in an authoritative tone to me.
My father passed away in his 50’s from cancer. At that time my mother was busy with her work, so I was in charge of nursing him.
After my father passed away, I lost my place in the house, left home and married my husband. He is a savior, he came to my rescue from my mother’s house. He is really gentle, so I don’t care nursing him.
Now I want to keep distance from my mother and elder sister, but instead give priority to my husband and live with him peacefully. However my father willed “get along with your sister”. I sometimes feel sorry for my mother. What should I do?
The answer of an advisor who is a writer, is
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Life is not always calm, we have a tailwind, a head wind, or sometimes storm.
However you are really happy though you are nursing your husband who you love as your savior, aren’t you? You focus on your life and live calmly and quietly. You have done enough because you nursed your father as much as you could
It is said that children who weren’t given enough love from their mothers tend to not be free because of being hung up on their mothers. You can’t go against your mother or your elder sister. You might be hung up on them.
However parents usually want their children who left their nest to be happy, even though they feel lonely. You believe it. You only tell your mother frankly “Sorry, Mom. Now my priority is my husband. I am nursing him. “
If you bear pain and push yourself too hard, nothing good will happen. It’s a good excuse to say that your priority is your husband. So you should keep distance from people who give you pain. Whatever they say, you hold your freedom of mind, and control your happiness by yourself.
Good morning 1212
A new week has started.
Today we have some errands, so go out.
Now, we are thinking , even though we have just finished breakfast, what we will have lunch ‘outside’.
Or, we might eat ‘takeout’ at home.
Our usual days are always based on what we eat.
Sunday, December 11, 2022
lunch diary 1211
Thursday, December 08, 2022
an article of "Ms. Mieko's home library
My project "Ms. Mieko's home library" was introduced on an article.
So I tried to translate it in English.
Ms. Mieko’s home library
A new “MIN TOSYO” private library has opened in Utsunomiya.
The main collection of “Ms. Mieko’s home library” is English picture books.
Though she runs her English school, it will close next year. She was thinking about how to make her English picture book collection useful after she closes her school. She found the group of “MIN TOSYO”, and joined the group. Now Ms. H is a director of her library. (Well, she has a staff, who is her husband who retired recently.)
About thirty years ago, she opened a piano school at home. Then her family joined a voluntary group and started to accept international students, then she also started her English school.
At that time foreign countries’ culture or events like Halloween, Easter and so on were not so popular. So she started to collect English picture books to introduce such culture or events easily with fun,
She also got the picture books which were translated in Japanese. She says it is really interesting how they are translated in Japanese.
She says “I would like others to enjoy these books with ease and fun.” with a good smile. Now she is organizing her private library project little by little.
Some of her books are already out of print. Listening to her explanation of these books, feeling her affection for these books, and talking with her were very wonderful and very precious time for me.
Ms. H also does voluntary reading of English picture books at Utsunomiya East library, though for a while it was stopped because of this coronavirus pandemic.
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In Utsunomiya there is an official private library. "Official" means there library is registered on the list of MINTOSYO. My library isn't registered.
At the private library, they introduce some of my books.
Good morning 1208
It is sunny again.
I will do exercise as much as I did yesrerday.
Yesterday, I did “too much” exercise. Going to the Gym in the morning and in the afternoon I did walking for longer distance than I thought. But it was over 6000 steps.
The exercise seemed to be too much for me. The rest of the day I didn’t want to do anything.
On the other hand I realized that my less physical power. This coldness is one reason.
Anyway I have to train my self physically.
Well, I wrote what I thought —- I don’t know what I will be a lie to do today.
Wednesday, December 07, 2022
Good morning 1207
Usual days of two of us have started. Yuki has already left to play golf. Got these two days it was very cold. Today it seems to be sunny and warmer than yesterday. Lucky him!
I am going to go to the gym.
Tuesday, December 06, 2022
Good morning 1206
A few minutes ago, my elder daughter left here. We had breakfast together. Yuki is still sleeping, because he was watching the soccer game for the midnight. Unfortunately Japan couldn’t win.
Probably she won’t come this new year vacation. So we went to a shrine to say thank of this year, and pray for the next year yesterday. Though it was raining we had a good drive. Of course the driver was Yuki.
Monday, December 05, 2022
Good morning 1205
A new week has started. It seems to be colder than yesterday. Yesterday I made this star-cereal bar and have a friend.
Today my elder daughter comes to update her driver’s license. So Yuki stays home without play tennis. We are going to eat out something outside.
Saturday, December 03, 2022
lunch diary 1203
Friday, December 02, 2022
Good morning 1202
Japan won. Yuki got up early to watch the live game. I was not going to do it. But —- I am sleepy now.
Yuki said “ I got up very early naturally, it was miracle, so this miracle brought victory to Japan”. I think a lot of Japanese people said the same thing.
I baked cinnamon bread with HB. Today’s breakfast is fruit, fruit, and fruit.
Apple, persimmon jam, and yuzu citron &carrto jam.
P.S about yesterday's peanuts article, my friend shared this site. Thanks.
Thursday, December 01, 2022
Good morning 1201
December has come.
Though probably we will spend our days as usual, we feel busy.
We share roasted peanuts to our friends. Here in Japan (or Utsunomiua) it is not so easy to get uncooked peanuts. And I think fresh roasted peanuts are tasty. Actually our friends seemed to be happy.
Well, we hear “be careful! If you eat too much peanuts, you have a nosebleed!”
Have you heard of it?
P.S my friend shared this site. Thanks.




































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